How do you keep a relationship going when only one of the two people are willing to put in the work? How can one person see all the things that another person needs to work on but never seems to see what they need to work on?
I think that the major reason that relationships do not work is that one or both partners have no clue how to put the work in to make the relationship better. Both partners have to be willing and actually put in the time to work on themselves and the relationship. Time should be spent working on the aspects of the relationship that needs work. Communication is key to being able to put in the work to sustain a relationship.
Just some thoughts!