30 Day Challenge – Day 11

Day 11: Your current relationship, if single discuss how single life is

So if you all have read any of my previous post you know that I am in a new relationship with an awesome guy. We have only been together for 8 months but it feels like I’ve known him all my life. 4 years ago I would have never thought that I would be here right now, in a relationship with someone that I feel I am going to spend the rest of my life with. We both want the same things out of life. We both want to get married and have children and the fact that he sees himself marrying me and raising children with me lets me know that I mean the world to him. He is such a good guy. I know I finally caught a keeper. And to top it off he is not a womanizer like the majority of my exes, so I don’t have to worry about him cheating and tons of different women! Which is actually a relief for me.

My current relationship is different than any other relationship that I have had before

My boyfriend is really caring and protective. He loves making sure that I am safe no matter where I am and who I am with. Which is something different than I am used to but something that I really love about him. He is just extremely sweet and loving! I love how he listens to me when I am rambling off about work, especially on those days when my clients have had bad days. He knows how much I love the work I do and he is always there with a listening ear. He supports me in everything I do.

But just like any relationship everything is not peachy 

There are some things about him that irritate the crap out of me sometimes but I wouldn’t trade him for the world. He tends to jump to conclusions sometimes about things and has the nerve to get an attitude. We have two different types of communication styles which can lead to minor and pointless arguments sometimes. Sometimes when I am frustrated and angry about things he is super positive. I know some of you may be reading that and saying to yourself “why is this something that would irritate her?”. It’s ok to be positive but sometimes I just want him to just let me be angry or frustrated. Like I just want to be able to vent sometimes and not having someone always telling me stuff. Nonetheless, I love how he builds me up and how proud he is of me!

I absolutely love this man! 

30 Day Challenge – Day 10

Day 10: Your views on drugs and alcohol

I do not have a problem with alcohol. I think that it is good to have when you have had a long day at work and you just want to unwind afterwards or there is a party and your drinking and enjoying yourself! I love a good Sangria or a glass of wine. I am a wine enthusiast and I love wine! The problem comes when you drink in excess every day, all day. That becomes bad for your health in the long run.

But to each it’s own…..

On the other hand, when it comes to drugs I do not do them. The only drug that I do not have an issue with is marijuana. I believe that it has a lot of benefits for those who have cancer and other diseases. Also, it can help people who have trouble focusing be more focused and on task. I do not believe that it is harmful to your body. The only side effects of marijuana is that it makes you sleepy and hungry.  All these other drugs that people are using like LSD, crack, cocaine, etc. those drugs are really harsh to your body and your health.

As I stated before to each it’s own…

30 Day Challenge – Day 9

Day 9: Your last kiss

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My last kiss was with my amazing boyfriend. I love kissing him. I could literally kiss him all day and all night. He has soft lips and his kisses just make me melt. When he kisses me I begin to feel butterflies in my stomach and my knees get a little weak. Not to sloppy and wet and not pecks on the lips. Its just the perfect kiss that I could ever imagine. His kisses are full of love and passion and I feel that every time he grabs the nape of my neck and kisses me. Not too soft and not too weak. Just the perfect balance from the man of my dreams! The thought of knowing that only I will kiss those lips from now until forever warms my heart. I how I love him so!

30 Day Challenge – Day 8

Day 8: Something you’re currently worrying about

I am currently worrying about whether my health will get better. At the end of last year I had some very serious issues and I was diagnosed with colitis and a few times I had c-diff. It’s basically inflammation of the colon. I was in and out the hospital for weeks. I have had to change my eating habits and I occasionally have flare ups. But just recently I had another health scare but they told me that I had acute bronchitis, which is inflammation of the bronchial tubes that carry air to the lungs. I just want to be healthy, happy and live a long life without complications to my health.

30 Day Challenge – Day 7

Day 7: Your opinion on cheating on people

I don’t think that there should ever be a reason for a person to cheat on another person, regardless of what the person did. I think that if a person feels like they are about to cheat then they should have an honest conversation about how they are feeling to their spouse. They should give the person that they are in a relationship with a chance to know what is going on with them and to fix what the problem is. I have always expressed that to the people that I have been in relationship with. If they ever felt the need to cheat all they had to do was come and tell me and we can sit and talk about what the issue is and how we can fix it. If we decided that it’s not going to work then at least they were honest with me about how they were feeling. I think that cheating is a sign of cowardice. It shows me that you don’t respect the person you are in a relationship with enough to not humiliate them by cheating on them. One thing for sure what is done in the dark will surely come to light! You may think that your spouse or partner will never find out but they always do.

30 Day Challenge -Day 6

Day 6: The person you like and why you like them

Well, the person that I like is my boyfriend. We have been together for 8 months now and he is simply amazing. What I like the most about him is that he can be extremely caring and protective at times which is great! He is such a family oriented man and he makes me feel special and loved. He loves playing video games with me! He has a good sense of humor and we have fun together. He is really sweet and kind and sort of like a complete opposite of me in some ways. I am very outgoing, friendly and spontaneous and he is very quiet, stays to himself, and is a homebody. One thing I like about him being a little to himself and a homebody is that I don’t really have to worry too much about other females. Which is a plus for me, because I have dealt with a ton of infidelity in my past relationships. He is my dream man and I know that we will grow old together and raise a beautiful family one day!

30 Day Challenge – Day 5

Day 5: 5 things that irritate you about the opposite sex/same sex

The things that irritate me about the opposite sex are:

  1. They don’t seem to be able to follow simple directions
  2. They don’t listen well
  3. They can be a little obnoxious sometimes
  4. When they cat call when a woman walks by them
  5. When they call me “Lil Mama” because I am short



30 Day Challenge – Day 4

Day 4: What you wear to bed

Well it all depends on my mood and how I am feeling. There are times where I wear lingerie to bed and other times I wear a t-shirt. When I am not feeling good or I have had a very long and stressful day I may wear pjs. Other times I just sleep in the nude when I go to bed.


30 Day Challenge – Day 3

Day 3: What kind of person attracts you

The kind of person that attracts me is a man who is tall and light skinned for starters, he has to be caring and kind. I like a man who has a great sense of humor and can be spontaneous just like me. Also, the person has to be family oriented and honest. I am attracted to a person who loves to play video games and can bring out there inner child. I love having tons of fun and laughing and I like someone who is the same!

30 Day Challenge – Day 2

Day 2: How have you changed in the past 2 years?

I would like to think that I have changed a lot in 2 years. Just 2 years ago from today I was 25 about to be 26. I had just started to sort of figure out what I wanted to do with my life after making a big career change. I was about to go to law school but after doing an internship at an Autism clinic for children I completely switched courses. I was also single and not really looking to be in a relationship. I was more focused on my life goals and my family than anything. After losing my father 2 years ago it shifted the way that I looked at life. I stopped partying so much and started to really grow up. I realized that there is so much more to life than partying on a daily basis. I am more open to love and making sure the important people in my life, family and friends, know how much I love them and care about them. Right now I am fully focused on my career and getting ready to graduate with my Masters in Applied Behavior Analysis (ABA) with a focus in Autism. I am loving being in a relationship and although it is new I am giving him everything and making sure that he knows how special he is to me. Another thing that I have noticed has changed about me is my firecracker attitude. I was the type of person who was fun and enjoyed life, very spontaneous, but when you made me mad I went from 0 to 100 extra quick. I am a little more calmer now and it takes a lot for me to reach that point. I am very proud of myself for fixing that because that was not something that was good about me. I am growing everyday and I am excited to see the changes that I make 2 years from now.