30 Day Challenge – Day 11

Day 11: Your current relationship, if single discuss how single life is

So if you all have read any of my previous post you know that I am in a new relationship with an awesome guy. We have only been together for 8 months but it feels like I’ve known him all my life. 4 years ago I would have never thought that I would be here right now, in a relationship with someone that I feel I am going to spend the rest of my life with. We both want the same things out of life. We both want to get married and have children and the fact that he sees himself marrying me and raising children with me lets me know that I mean the world to him. He is such a good guy. I know I finally caught a keeper. And to top it off he is not a womanizer like the majority of my exes, so I don’t have to worry about him cheating and tons of different women! Which is actually a relief for me.

My current relationship is different than any other relationship that I have had before

My boyfriend is really caring and protective. He loves making sure that I am safe no matter where I am and who I am with. Which is something different than I am used to but something that I really love about him. He is just extremely sweet and loving! I love how he listens to me when I am rambling off about work, especially on those days when my clients have had bad days. He knows how much I love the work I do and he is always there with a listening ear. He supports me in everything I do.

But just like any relationship everything is not peachy 

There are some things about him that irritate the crap out of me sometimes but I wouldn’t trade him for the world. He tends to jump to conclusions sometimes about things and has the nerve to get an attitude. We have two different types of communication styles which can lead to minor and pointless arguments sometimes. Sometimes when I am frustrated and angry about things he is super positive. I know some of you may be reading that and saying to yourself “why is this something that would irritate her?”. It’s ok to be positive but sometimes I just want him to just let me be angry or frustrated. Like I just want to be able to vent sometimes and not having someone always telling me stuff. Nonetheless, I love how he builds me up and how proud he is of me!

I absolutely love this man! 

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30 Day Challenge – Day 8

Day 8: Something you’re currently worrying about

I am currently worrying about whether my health will get better. At the end of last year I had some very serious issues and I was diagnosed with colitis and a few times I had c-diff. It’s basically inflammation of the colon. I was in and out the hospital for weeks. I have had to change my eating habits and I occasionally have flare ups. But just recently I had another health scare but they told me that I had acute bronchitis, which is inflammation of the bronchial tubes that carry air to the lungs. I just want to be healthy, happy and live a long life without complications to my health.

30 Day Challenge – Day 7

Day 7: Your opinion on cheating on people

I don’t think that there should ever be a reason for a person to cheat on another person, regardless of what the person did. I think that if a person feels like they are about to cheat then they should have an honest conversation about how they are feeling to their spouse. They should give the person that they are in a relationship with a chance to know what is going on with them and to fix what the problem is. I have always expressed that to the people that I have been in relationship with. If they ever felt the need to cheat all they had to do was come and tell me and we can sit and talk about what the issue is and how we can fix it. If we decided that it’s not going to work then at least they were honest with me about how they were feeling. I think that cheating is a sign of cowardice. It shows me that you don’t respect the person you are in a relationship with enough to not humiliate them by cheating on them. One thing for sure what is done in the dark will surely come to light! You may think that your spouse or partner will never find out but they always do.

30 Day Challenge -Day 6

Day 6: The person you like and why you like them

Well, the person that I like is my boyfriend. We have been together for 8 months now and he is simply amazing. What I like the most about him is that he can be extremely caring and protective at times which is great! He is such a family oriented man and he makes me feel special and loved. He loves playing video games with me! He has a good sense of humor and we have fun together. He is really sweet and kind and sort of like a complete opposite of me in some ways. I am very outgoing, friendly and spontaneous and he is very quiet, stays to himself, and is a homebody. One thing I like about him being a little to himself and a homebody is that I don’t really have to worry too much about other females. Which is a plus for me, because I have dealt with a ton of infidelity in my past relationships. He is my dream man and I know that we will grow old together and raise a beautiful family one day!

30 Day Challenge – Day 5

Day 5: 5 things that irritate you about the opposite sex/same sex

The things that irritate me about the opposite sex are:

  1. They don’t seem to be able to follow simple directions
  2. They don’t listen well
  3. They can be a little obnoxious sometimes
  4. When they cat call when a woman walks by them
  5. When they call me “Lil Mama” because I am short

 

 

30 Day Challenge – Day 4

Day 4: What you wear to bed

Well it all depends on my mood and how I am feeling. There are times where I wear lingerie to bed and other times I wear a t-shirt. When I am not feeling good or I have had a very long and stressful day I may wear pjs. Other times I just sleep in the nude when I go to bed.

 

30 Day Writing Challenge!!

So I came across this 30 day challenge that I am going to attempt starting tomorrow. One of my resolutions for this new year was to get back to blogging and writing on the regular, so I figure this would give me a fresh start. Feel free to join me in this challenge if you would like.

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30 Day Writing Challenge

So I am going to start this 30 day writing challenge. If anyone would like to start this challenge too that would be wonderful. I am hoping to push my writing to boundaries I didn’t know I could reach. Here is the complete list of all 30 challenges:

Day 1 —Select a book at random in the room. Find a novel or short story, copy down the last sentence and use this line as the first line of your new story.
Day 2 —Tell about a character who lost something important to him/her.
Day 3 —Write about the worst time you’ve ever put your foot in your mouth.
Day 4 —Write a story/excerpt to include the line, “Sorry, we can’t insure you for a journey like that.”
Day 5 —Pick a letter of the alphabet. Now imagine two aisles of your local supermarket. List everything found in those two aisles that begin with that letter of the alphabet.
Day 6 —Write about a person who would buy all of those items in Day 5.
Day 7 —What sets you apart from the crowd?
Day 8 —Tell your life story from someone else’s point of view.
Day 9 —What was your favorite childhood toy?
Day 10 —What do you want to be remembered for?
Day 11 —What was your first childhood pet? Describe it in detail.
Day 12 —What is your favorite day of the week?
Day 13 —Write about a random picture you would find in an envelope of finished prints at Costco.
Day 14 —Elvis still gets 100 Valentines each year. Tell about one of the people who sent one.
Day 15 — Create a character who is falsely accused of a crime.
Day 16 —If we assume ghosts are real, what type of ghost would you like to see?
Day 17 — Write a short scenario set in the kitchen of a fast-food restaurant.
Day 18 —Take a reader behind the wheel with the worst driver you’ve ever known.
Day 19 —Write a list of 25 (or just 5!) things you want to do in your life.
Day 20 —If you could go on only one more vacation in your lifetime, where would you go and why?
Day 21 —Find a job ad in the paper. Write about your life if you had that job.
Day 22 —You wake up with a key gripped tightly in your hand. How did you get this key? What does it lock or unlock?
Day 23 —Pretend you’re a cartoon character. What type of a character would you be? What would a day in your life be like?
Day 24 —Write about the longest amount of time you’ve ever gone without sleeping.
Day 25 —Write a story about ‘What the Neighbors Saw.’
Day 26 —Write about your worst habit.
Day 27 —Make up a near-death experience (unless you have a real one).
Day 28 —You read about yourself in your brother/sister, girlfriend/boyfriend’s diary. What did you read?
Day 29 —You are at a cemetery reading gravestones. Write about one of the people you find.
Day 30 —Write a short entry that ends with the line, “The silver dust of moonlight settled coldly on the night.”